Hey everyone!
If you’re just starting out in surfing, WELCOME! You’re in for an incredible ride. But let’s be honest, learning to surf isn’t just about standing up on a board. There’s a whole unspoken dance happening in the lineup, and if you don’t know the steps yet, it can feel a little overwhelming.
That’s where surf etiquette comes in. These unwritten rules aren’t about being strict or intimidating - they’re here to keep everyone safe, make the experience more enjoyable, and help you feel confident every time you paddle out.
At Marnie Rays, we know how nerve-wracking it can be to step into the lineup for the first time, but trust us, you belong out there just as much as anyone. Here’s what you need to know to navigate the waves with confidence and respect.
1. Know Before You Go
Before you even hit the water, take a moment to get familiar with the break, and make sure you can handle swimming!
Competent swimmer! - This feels like a point that we shouldn’t have to make but you’d be surprised at how many people want to learn to surf when they can’t really swim…being a good swimmer not only helps you to paddle out but it could save your life if you get separated from your board!
Check the conditions – Wave size, tides, and wind all affect the surf. Make sure the conditions match your skill level.
Observe the lineup – Watch where surfers are paddling out, where the waves are breaking, and how people are positioning themselves.
Ask if you’re unsure – Local surfers or instructors can give you insights into any hazards, currents, or things to be aware of.
A little preparation goes a long way in making sure your session is safe and stress-free.
2. Respect the Lineup and Other Surfers
The ocean is a shared space, and the best sessions happen when everyone treats each other with kindness and respect.
Give locals their space – If you’re new to a break, take time to observe and ease into the lineup rather than paddling straight into the mix.
No snaking – Snaking means paddling around someone to steal priority on a wave. It’s bad etiquette and won’t win you any friends.
Bring good energy – Surfing is about connection, not competition.
3. Who Gets the Wave? Understanding Priority
One of the biggest rules in surfing is knowing who has the right of way.
The surfer closest to the peak has priority – If someone is already riding the wave, don’t paddle for it.
One wave, one surfer – Avoid dropping in on someone else’s ride—it’s not only frustrating but also dangerous.
Communicate – A quick call of “left!” or “right!” can help avoid mix-ups when paddling for the same wave.
If you’re unsure, take a second to watch how other surfers are moving before paddling in.
4. No Dropping In - Seriously!
Dropping in is when you take off on a wave that someone else already has priority on. Always check before you go – A quick glance over your shoulder will tell you if someone is already riding the wave.
If you drop in by mistake, apologise – It happens! A simple “Sorry about that!” goes a long way.
Learn to read the lineup – The more time you spend in the water, the easier it gets to spot who has priority.
Being mindful of this rule will help you earn respect and keep the lineup flowing smoothly.
5. Paddle Smart: Where and How You Move Matters
Paddling out is an art in itself. How you navigate the waves can make a big difference.
Avoid the impact zone – This is where waves are breaking. Paddle out around the shoulder instead.
Don’t paddle into someone’s path – If a surfer is riding toward you, try to paddle behind them, not in front.
Time your paddle-out – If a big set is rolling through, wait for a break before making your move.
6. Keep Hold of Your Board
Letting go of your board in the middle of a wipeout can be dangerous, not just for you but for everyone around you.
Try to stay in control – If you need to dive under a wave, keep a hand on your board.
Always wear a leash – This keeps your board attached to you and prevents it from becoming a hazard.
Loose boards = injuries – Practicing board control will make you a better (and more respected) surfer.
7. Leave No Trace
We all love the ocean, so let’s take care of it.
Take your rubbish with you – If you bring snacks or sunscreen, make sure nothing gets left behind.
Respect coastal areas – Avoid stepping on dunes or fragile ecosystems.
Use reef-safe sunscreen – Some sunscreens contain chemicals that harm marine life, so opt for ocean-friendly options.
Ready to Hit the Water?
Don’t let these unwritten rules put you off, every surfer was a beginner once, and learning surf etiquette is just part of the journey. The more time you spend in the water, the more natural it will feel. Most importantly, have fun, be kind (to yourself and others), and enjoy the ride!
I hope this helped! If you have any questions or want to share your experiences, drop them in the comments below - I’d love to hear from you. See you in the waves! 🌊
"A little preparation goes a long way in making sure your session is safe and stress-free." True but you missed out my number one. Swimming. You need to be a good swimmer and that means knocking out 1km in the pool before you even think about surfing. Given that leg ropes break and conditions can change rapidly (look out for out going tides) it just might save your life ..... or your embarassment. The other advantage is it means you have a bit of paddling power which is the most common problem for beginners.
I love this, Lindsey! I think this sums it up well. As an Aussie teenager surfing before school, my girlfriends and I avoided where all the serious surfers were and never braved approaching the real lineup because we'd get yelled at but if there were more girls in the waves we might have braved it. I love to see you building this community.